WHAT IS FINANCIAL ONENESS?
Achieving complete financial unity and the process of doing so.
Ready to Start the Conversation?
Talking about money doesn’t have to be awkward or heavy. When done with love, curiosity, and a little humor, it can bring you closer together.
4 Rules for Financially Intimate Conversations
1. Don’t Have All the Conversations at Once
You don’t need to solve everything in one sitting. Take one topic at a time—steady progress beats emotional overload.
2. Pray and Hold Hands
Physical connection fosters spiritual unity. Before diving into numbers, invite God into the conversation and center your hearts on grace.
3. Meet Consistently
Schedule regular “money talks.” Consistency builds trust—and prevents surprises. Think of it as a standing date with a purpose.
4. If Consistency Becomes an Issue…
Take your clothes off during meetings; and if that still doesn’t help, seek counseling. They can help!
KEY TERMS
Financial Intimacy: When a married couple relies on god to be vulnerable about their finances.
“The quality and frequency of your Financial Communications determines the depth of your Financial Intimacy.”
Financial Infidelity - When a married couple breaks financial trust with one another.
PRO TIP: “Any inclination to keep secret means it's a bad and probably ungodly idea”
Financial Communication - Intentional consistent recurring conversations around finances.
Communication = speaking + listening. Listening is the often forgotten, quiet part of communication.
Our PURPOSE
Finances are an intimate topic and should be approached with intimacy in mind. Financial Oneness provides a framework for married couples to leverage their resources for a shared mission.
With spiritual integration, Financial Oneness is a path to communicating about and using your resources to glorify God.
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READY FOR MORE?
Let’s keep the conversation going. Join one of our virtual seminars, book an in-person workshop, or bring the experience home with our Naked & Rich card game.